How Matchmakers Can Build Singles Events That Keep Daters Coming Back

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Would you rather send a “like” to a stranger on a dating app, or lock eyes with a stranger across a crowded room? Matchmaker Alina Fattakhova, founder and chief matchmaker of Beau Monde Matchmaking, is betting that modern singles will choose the latter.

She’s not wrong: A 2025 Hims survey found that 82% of respondents in a relationship met their partners in real life, and not on an app. And with more daters seeking out IRL connections, it’s only natural for matchmakers and other dating professionals to meet this need.

Read Alina Fattakhova’s full interview with Sheena Holt at Datingnews.com

Alina Fattakhova2026-08-25T17:25:55+00:00August 21st, 2026|Categories: The Matchmaker's Journal|Tags: dating apps, dating scene, interviews, singles events|

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Recommendations — Success stories

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Hello everyone. This is Andrey from New York. I want to thank Alina for her work in organizing a meeting party. This amazing party took place in an amazing place, the unique atmosphere is conducive to communication and frankness. Alina is able to create trust in both halves so that they can open up more to each other.

Andrey

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So far, I’ve had two great dates, and while things are still developing, I already feel that my experience has been well worth the investment. If you’re serious about finding someone in New York and don’t have time for dating apps, I highly recommend Alina and her agency.

Karina

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I had the pleasure of working with Alina and have been equally impressed and thrilled with her dedication, professionalism and genuine desire to help. She has introduced me to some great matches, and l would definitely recommend her to any singles in NY who are looking for real results.

Michael

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After being disappointed with dating apps, I decided to search out matchmakers. After talking to a lot of them and not being satisfied, I happened to come across Beau Monde Matchmaking online and it has been a great experience! Alina really takes the time to get to know you, your personality, and needs in a relationship. She also hosts matchmaking events which Is a great addition to her service. I would definitely recommend!

Evan

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I worked with Alina five months ago. She identified my attachment style and we worked on breaking my long lasting patterns. Once we did that, she matched me with a wonderful gentleman and we are currently exploring our relationship and are happy.

Ann

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Hello Alina, good afternoon! I’m writing to you with great gratitude for what you do. I came to you without any expectations, just out of curiosity. But the most important thing is that I met a guy through you, and we are currently seeing each other.

Tatiana